Best ways to a healthy relationship for newly married | Best Pieces of Marriage Advice for Newlyweds

Now every relationship is changing the way to maintain in present time. Friends when I was a child then my mother used to do only house chores and my father used to go to office only but at the present time when both mother and father are going out for work so, it got many changes in their lifestyle, behaviour and relationship too. From starting if we maintain the relationship then it will be best for our life long and it’s for all relationships. So today I am going to tell you the best secrets of a happy couple’s relationship

Know likes and dislikes of each other

First whenever we start our relationship then we should know the likes and dislikes of the person as it will help us how to make the person happy and by it, the relationship will be strong. Like I want to give you the example of my life that when I got married in my laws house the women used to wear Indian dresses only and I am working thus I used to wear western dresses max because western dresses are easy to maintain while travelling by public transport.

But I had to change this habit as they are not comfortable with me while sitting and talking because instead of talking they watch my dress more so I thought in this way they will not be familiar with me as I look different from all of them. Very soon I understood that I am the only person who looks different in this family so I need to change because for one person a family can’t change and believe me, friends, after taking this step I have become the best and favourite in my laws house.

They loved me a lot and by god grace, I am still now their favourite even after this everyone used to give my example to all new brides. See friends small changes make miracles sometimes but yes if you have really some good habits then never change for anyone and it’s true that after some time the good habits are adopted by everyone when they get to know the benefits of it. 

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Accept the mistakes

For a healthy relationship, we should always ready to accept mistakes if we did but the biggest problem is we all blame others for every bad circumstance and later the small thing becomes worse. So before getting ready to tie a knot parents’ advice for newlyweds is very essential to building a strong marriage foundation. Couple relationship problems are very common in every era, but now these are increasing very high because of their arguments, blaming each other and not accepting their mistakes.

Whenever there is any type of fight between both newlyweds one of them should be calm first and accept the mistake then only there will be a solution. Yes, friends whenever we are in anger then it became a danger to know why? Because when adding ‘D’ to Anger its converts into danger right, so calm yourself and give time to know the mistake from which side and later definitely you will get the solution to come out from each problem.

Solve the matter soon

The keys to a successful marriage are to do things that strengthen your marriage. The best thing whatever problem or matter is there try to solve it as soon as possible because in starting of marriage the relationship is just like a very thin thread so if you will pull it more then it will break soon or it will lock in itself too much as it can’t come back in straight and normal position again.

Whenever you start any argument than before leaving from that place you should short out the matter there only.  Even if it starts from your bedroom then it must not go to your kitchen right, so solve the matter very soon.

Girl has to change more as she is one and In-laws are more

Dear girls, I want to say this especially for you that you need to do more changes in your behaviour, habits, food, talking and may more because you are going to change your house not your husband so the meaning of marriage is only one thing that now you are going to live in another house with another parent and another siblings or relatives too.

Just think for it and you find the logic to change yourself and believe me changes are very good for our success as we all know that from our childhood we got many changes like mentally, physically, relationship, friendship and even in everything we got changes right, thus we should always welcome to changes as they make us successful.

So don’t be afraid of changes like we are already habitual to face many changes in our life. Now after marriage, the changes are more because we are mature and soon we will be at the position of parents with the responsibilities. So be ready to accept the more changes of nature for your happy life.

Have Faith and Patience

It is very easy that, how to keep the relationship interesting and a good relationship between husband and wife, first-year marriage struggles makes really a strong relationship between newlyweds. In every relationship, the root is to have faith and patience in both. This is not for the husband or wife even for the entire person who gets involved in relation due to the marriage of two persons.

A marriage is a relation of two families and there is a minimum of 100 people related to a family including all relatives, thus they all get a tie in a relationship and when its end due to some wrong decision then all 100 people will be affected due to it.

So we must have thought for all and keep full faith in other people unless we can’t find the actual or true fault. Faith and patience are keys to a strong and successful marriage life so please keep these valuable words in your mind and heart whenever you are going to tie a knot in a new relationship.

Never bring your Families in any type of conversation

Friends if you remember your school time then maximum fight with our classmates started when anyone used to say the wrong thing about our family or about any family members and the words which are related to our parents those are working as a needle to a balloon and after the balloon burst on that one who used the words.

Many times the fight becomes worse and there was one student who was suspended for one month due to that he got very fewer marks and failed in exams because the syllabus is not a matter but getting suspension is fully disturb one mind and the person can’t focus on anything. Now you can understand that as a child we got so much anger and now we become mature thus our anger got mature enough and now it can worsen the problem even we can’t get the chance to retake in our relationship.

So be very careful and never bring your families in any type of conversation and even don’t blame them for anything as they are your parents, thus they want the best for you because you are important and valuable for their life.

Dear all I wrote this blog because I faced a very bad experience for my cousin due to some very small things she tried to separate from her husband. And that time our whole family including all the people from both the family who were the witness of the marriage, were very upset because there are many more golden memories are related to that marriage and now the worst will be added with it and no one wants to add the worst to spoil their golden time.

So friends before going to tie a knot with anyone please prepare yourself as a responsible person and also try to ready yourself as a parent because after marriage you will face the next chapter of parent only and you know that if we ready our chapter before the test then we will get the best result in it right. 

Nowadays I see after getting married people to start fighting with very small things like for dresses, food, managing the things, etc. and this due to lack of faith and patience, both newlyweds think that others have to change according to them but they are not able to judge that first of all we have to change our self then only we can change others.

Just keep this thing in mind that we have to change according to the situation because we are living beings with a brain and the situation will not change according to us as it is created by us only and we can manage only. So, friends, I hope that this topic will be very helpful for you all and if you have any topic for which you want information through my blogs then please write me in the comment section below, I will wait for your suggestion eagerly. Thanks for supporting me, bye and take care.